| I was two feet away :) |
Our journey as a homeschooling, foster care, adoptive family!
Saturday, January 15, 2011
Pine Wood Derby.
The Pack 175 Pine Wood Derby was today. We were there forever! The kids were having a blast, of course, but it wasn't particularly exciting for me. I'm glad the boys had a good time though. It was Jackson's first time as a Scout doing the race, he was over the moon excited. Johnny did a great job as MC of the event. It was a great day for the boys!
Thursday, January 13, 2011
From the Mundane to the Miraculous
I'm doing a blog over HERE. I'm diving into God a bit and seeing what I can see. It's been pretty amazing so far. You should pop over and read it. :)
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
Love Really Is The Answer.
So I'm a blog follower and a facebook fan. I follow lots of people that raise their children differently than me, gave birth differently, and school differently. Lately it seems that we, as mothers, are tearing each other down rather than being a support system for each other.
There are so many things to argue about:
home-birth, natural birth, epidurals, c-sections, breast feeding, bottle feeding, which formula, pacifiers, vaccines, organic food, processed food, homeschool, private school, public school, working moms, part time moms, stay at home moms, religious upbringings, natural family planning, birth control, quiver-full, co-sleeping, crib sleeping, family beds, cloth diapers, disposable diapers, spanking, time outs, and oh so many others. Even within these groups there are arguments. There are so many ways to bring up a child. Not all can be right, not all can be wrong. I'm just a guilty about judging other mothers, and I'm aware of that, and I'm working on it. I'm talking about, the way mothers are being viciously attacked.
My dear friend posted a picture of her baby taking a lick of lollipop and the masses attacked! I've seen friends verbally assaulted for their choice of delivery and their choice of how many children to have, or not have. Because of technology it's gone way beyond simple quiet judgments. It's going into someones home, into their safe place, and attacking them for their choice of child rearing. It's being brave behind the keyboard and saying things that would never, nor should ever, be said to a persons face.
We are all different, we all have different views. The majority of mothers are trying to do the best with what they know or what they are willingly to learn. None of us are 100% correct in our choices. What works miracles for one family, could be the downfall for another. There's no need in tearing each other to emotional bits when we should be uniting as mothers and being supportive. If a mother asks for advice, give her your honest answer, if she doesn't follow it, take it at face value. She probably doesn't think that you're wrong, just that it won't work for her family.
God entrusted these being into our care for the time being. We only get a short amount of time to raise them into productive adults. I would love my community and my support system. I'm lucky beyond measure at the wonderful women that I've met. We need to help each other get these children into adulthood as whole and well human beings. We need to just love one another and give support as it's needed.
There are so many things to argue about:
home-birth, natural birth, epidurals, c-sections, breast feeding, bottle feeding, which formula, pacifiers, vaccines, organic food, processed food, homeschool, private school, public school, working moms, part time moms, stay at home moms, religious upbringings, natural family planning, birth control, quiver-full, co-sleeping, crib sleeping, family beds, cloth diapers, disposable diapers, spanking, time outs, and oh so many others. Even within these groups there are arguments. There are so many ways to bring up a child. Not all can be right, not all can be wrong. I'm just a guilty about judging other mothers, and I'm aware of that, and I'm working on it. I'm talking about, the way mothers are being viciously attacked.
My dear friend posted a picture of her baby taking a lick of lollipop and the masses attacked! I've seen friends verbally assaulted for their choice of delivery and their choice of how many children to have, or not have. Because of technology it's gone way beyond simple quiet judgments. It's going into someones home, into their safe place, and attacking them for their choice of child rearing. It's being brave behind the keyboard and saying things that would never, nor should ever, be said to a persons face.We are all different, we all have different views. The majority of mothers are trying to do the best with what they know or what they are willingly to learn. None of us are 100% correct in our choices. What works miracles for one family, could be the downfall for another. There's no need in tearing each other to emotional bits when we should be uniting as mothers and being supportive. If a mother asks for advice, give her your honest answer, if she doesn't follow it, take it at face value. She probably doesn't think that you're wrong, just that it won't work for her family.
God entrusted these being into our care for the time being. We only get a short amount of time to raise them into productive adults. I would love my community and my support system. I'm lucky beyond measure at the wonderful women that I've met. We need to help each other get these children into adulthood as whole and well human beings. We need to just love one another and give support as it's needed.
Friday, January 7, 2011
Giveaway.
Go over to Pitter Patter Art for the chance at a great give away!!! She's pretty awesome!!!
Thursday, January 6, 2011
Tid Bits of Our Downstairs Life.
I was just snapping some random shots around the downstairs and thought it would make a neat blog. So this is some tidbits of our life. When we're downstairs anyway :)
| Sam and his polka dot box. |
| In Mario jammies playing Wii. |
| Sam's corner of the world when he hurt his neck. |
| Wii being played. |
| Shane checking his chore list. |
| Chore list and Extra Money list. |
| We have to plan 4 months in advance around here. |
| My cool yard sale find. |
| In our entry way. |
| Our entry way. |
| My alarm system :) |
| Darn you winter! |
| My boys playing. |
| Our new additions. |
| This plant has not grown in two years and then started pouring out of it's basket! |
| Playtime! |
| My "office" |
Monday, January 3, 2011
Winter Wonderland!
It started snowing on Christmas night! It was more snow than we've ever had here. It was great, we were trapped inside with movies and snacks. I loved it! Johnny had an idea to have the scouts go outside and make snowmen for a contest. We made two different ones. We also made snow cream for the first time. It was good, tasted just like vanilla ice cream! It was a great vacation. It was my favorite!
| Jackson stayed inside the first time around. |
| The next day, he wanted to play. |
| Jack's snowman. |
| We made snow cream! |
| Shane's Cub Scout snowman. |
Sunday, January 2, 2011
Another Blog to follow :)
I started another blog over HERE. It's my New Years Resolution/ New Life Resolution. Pop over there and take a peek. Feel free to share.
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